trades

I would like to know in this forum in regards to trading how many of you have been ripped off in a trade ?
im not allowed to mention names cuz help people & server say i can't without proof.
But in a trade your offering & the other person sends a accept & you do but your trade goes to that person & you don't get what you traded for.
help/server says they CAN"T do anything in a trade but how are you suppossed to know AHEAD of time that person is a crook ?
I say you should get back what you got ripped off for.
Prob get a message now from CENSERS WATCHING & get a warning for speaking my opinion.

I think it has been explained to you previously that when you send a trade offer your goods go with it- and until it is accepted or declined, or timed out (can be more than 24 hours) you will be without those goods. If this is unsettling to you as it is to many of us with the current system, simply put offers up in trade and that way you will control the accepting of the trades and the goods will be yours right away.