Originally Posted by
Falcian
Way I see it...
1. StrongMe made an honest mistake posting 50k bread for 1 stone instead of 1 watermill.
2. She wasn't putting up that outrageous an offer for watermills if both sides are happy with the deal then it is a fair and equitable transaction. (I picked up a dozen of them for 1500-1700 coins which is lower than they normally sell for but supply had gone up which sent prices spiraling down).
3. LadyEm saw a good trade and so accepted it (we all would have done this, people quit and give away their resources all the time). However in this instance both parties were not happy with the transaction since StrongMe made a mistake and did not really seek 1 stone for 50k bread.
4. After finding out that StrongMe had indeed made a mistake and decided to zealously seek to correct it in any way s/he could in order to avoid a set back (this was done through a threat of reporting), LadyEm decided to use this as justification for keeping the bread instead of taking the high road and being the bigger person.
5. StrongMe will recover from this incident, but LadyEm (having done nothing illegal) will take a hit to her reputation since we all expect people to conduct themselves with the highest standards of honesty, integrity, and fairness doing nothing that is either illegal or unethical because no one wants to deal with someone who is untrustworthy and who we fear won't give us a fair trade.
6. It should be common practice to treat others as you would like to be treated. It's exactly like the scenario where you are given too much change when purchasing an item, you can keep it or you can give it back because that is the right thing to do and if you had made the same mistake you would expect the person to whom you gave the extra money to give it back.
Final Thoughts - LadyEm, forgive strongme, send the resources back and accept strongme's sincerest apology for being unable to convey his/her thoughts in a kinder way that was easier for you to understand. Strongme doesn't seem to be the most capable English writer but if we were speaking his/her language we would likely make many faux pas ourselves. I'm sure you are a good person and want to be known as fair and just, as slow to anger and quick to forgive. In forgiving and returning the resources, especially with strongme's threat, you will show yourself to be an exceptional individual who is worthy of all our admiration.
Cheers,
Falcian
P.S. Sorry about the length I hadn't expected to write so much when I first began this post.