LAdyEm didnt do anything wrong, strongME, and it was wrong for YOU to send her threatening mails. Trying to say that she would get banned by the BBs, because of YOUR actions. It's your OWN FAULT you made that trade and posted the offer. Lady Em didnt do anything wrong, so stop bullying her. And stop putting up bogus false accusations of impudent players on the forum.
She did do something wrong. She failed to return the goods and she should have. At law it was what is called an "unconscionable transaction". But strongME should not send threatening mail, I agree.
strongME, IF the first mail I recieved from you had contained words like, I'm sorry and/or please I would have given back your bread. As you chose to threaten me instead, I chose to not respond or deal with you.
no,Lady Em did nothing wrong, and you know darn well the basically almost anyone would have done the same thing, anyone would have. Its just that Lady Em was the one who got there first. There is no rule in the game that says you have to give a trade back to someone who , by their own actions, put up the offer on TO. show me that rule. And as for playing nice, lets not act all innocent about that either.
One of the central problems of acting ethically, g00dthinking, is that it sometimes will not appear be in your own best interests to do so. Just because "everybody else does it" does not make it right.
so, just to recap. there is no rule in the game that says you have to return a trade that someone else put up, and regrets, and accepting such a trade was not wrong and it doesnt make whoever accepted it a bad person. got it. thanks for clearing that up for everyone. and i know for a fact that some of the people replying on these threads are not exactly ethical themselves, either. so I dont need some type of morality speech about a video game, that involves soley the gameplay of the game itself, and nothing else. . Usually a pretty good person here anyway, and I know Lady Em is too. She didnt hurt anyone, she didnt talk trash , or do anything else to anyone , other than except a trade in TO, that was it. So back up off my peeps already, thanks . good talk.